oh man. many things have past.
heyhey, shall not blog more about my personal life!
shall answer the question alot of pple have in mind.
especailly when it's sec 3 -- THE YEAR! yah, everybody says!
so check if you are IN LOVE
There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings
or the feelings of another person
but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper).
If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.
1.You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2.The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3.If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4.Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
5.When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6.Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7.Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
8.You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
9.If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.
DOES THIS CLEAR YOUR DOUBTS? [:
i sure do have doubts with this kinda thing.
but it's just not my thing now. i'm all focused on studies.
hahahaha [: hey guys, if you all wna excel in your studies,
perhaps you just need to be a little hardworking
and for a while, "give up" your relationships.
i realise relationships do play a part in pulling down your grades,
so jiayou pple! only you can help yourself! :D
omg i'm so crappy today.
hands all tired, fingers all pain
after all that typing of bio proj and smsing! :l
Three things that feel like love but are really very far from it.
Lust
You know the feeling… that unexplainable and often sudden physical draw to another person that hits you like a ton of bricks within moments of meeting. This is the feeling that is all too often mistaken for “love at first sight” but that is really nothing more than an intense physical attraction. When we fall in lust we often think we’re in love.
Obsession
Obsessive feelings are often mistaken for love because people rationalize that, “It must be love if I can’t think of anyone else.” Obsession is similar to lust but it is much more misleading and destructive. While lust is often fleeting, fading as two people come to know each other better, obsession sticks around once people have seen each other flaws and all.
In fact, obsession can be made worse with time while lust always fades. Love can grow out of lust but obsession kills love every time!
Rebounding
Everybody has heard of the rebound fling. This is a relationship that comes very quickly on the heels of another relationship ending. Rebounds are rarely based on love but are really a way of alleviating the loneliness people feel when a relationship ends. Even people who wanted their previous relationship to end can fall for the rebound phenomenon. Rebounding can feel like love for the simple reason that the people involved want to be in love.perhaps this could help you understand and "wake up"
